7 Things People Who Believe In Themselves Do Differently
What is about people who believe in themselves?
We see it in the way they carry themselves, in the way they interact with others, and in the things they accomplish.
Self-belief in action is an amazing thing to see, and something everyone should aspire to.
The ability to believe in yourself is what differentiates successful people from those who are not so successful.
In fact, I’ve noticed that the biggest difference between successful people an unsuccessful people isn’t how smart they are or what opportunities are afforded to them or what resources they have.
It’s the believe they have in themselves that they can make their goals happen.
We all Deal with Vulnerability, Uncertainty, and Failure.
Every one of us deals with these at one time or another in our lives.
Some of us trust that if we move forward anyway, then we will figure it out.
This belief that we can do it is the #1 indicator of the success we will have, and so it’s a trait we really want to excel at.
At the same time, we very quickly become intimidated by this kind of change.
It seems like it would be hard to change how you think and feel about yourself.
We tend to stall out before we begin because it seems like only ‘special’ people are going to get ‘there.’
But is that true?
A closer examination shows us otherwise.
In fact, you’ll find people who believe in themselves have a lot of traits in common.
Let’s look at some of those traits now.
They Know Where to Find Happiness
…and it’s not where you’ve been looking.
People with self-belief know true happiness is something that comes from inside, not from how many toys you have or how many digits you have in your checking account.
They’re Really Not Interested in What Everyone Else is Doing
With no judgment and even less interest in comparing themselves to others, people who believe in themselves tend to focus more on what they’re doing.
The competition simply doesn’t matter.
They Pick their Battles
When you lack self-belief, you tend to say ‘yes’ to everything.
If you don’t value your time, no one else will either.
Learning which things to say ‘yes’ to and more importantly, how to say ‘no,’ shows the world around them their time is worth fighting for.
They Know When to Speak Confidently
There’s no waffling or room for wishy-washy statements in the world of self-belief.
Your ‘yes’ means ‘yes.’
You use a phrase like, “I know…” or “I can…” without second-guessing or wondering if you really can follow through with what you’re saying.
They Look for the Challenge
There’s nothing like a little healthy competition with yourself.
Self-belief means you know the value of pushing to get to the next level.
To a person with this kind of self-belief, life becomes almost like a game to move up by facing a challenge straight-on.
They Know How to Fail
The person with self-belief isn’t afraid to try, which sometimes means not accomplishing what they set out to do.
When that happens, they take the lesson learned without making excuses or worrying about how it looks.
And they use what they learned to try again and do better.
They Don’t Need the Spotlight
When you believe in yourself, you don’t need accolades and are quick to point out the accomplishments of others.
Most people with strong self-belief are modest.
They know their value; they don’t need someone else to underscore it for them.
Do You Believe That Change is Possible for You?
One of the most foundational beliefs of this community is that you can become better.
We believe that it is possible for human beings to improve.
We believe that it is possible to raise the bar in your own life even if the world around you accepts average.
We believe in ourselves and in each other.
We believe that if you want better health or more happiness or a more meaningful job that you can make those things happen.
And because of this belief we are willing to test, experiment, and try new things even when we feel uncertain.
If you don’t believe that it’s possible to make new things work, then it’s hard to make any progress.
I don’t care how good the ideas are, nothing will work for you if you don’t believe in it.
And more importantly, nothing will work if you don’t believe in yourself.
But you can become better!
You can believe in yourself!
The amazing thing about all of these traits is just how easy they are to develop in yourself.
By taking the time to build habits of self-belief, you’ll be amazed at how quickly you become one of those fantastic people who really believe in themselves.
Now I’d Love to Hear from You
So how about you?
Do you believe in yourself?
Which of these traits do you have, or which do you want to work on?
Please share your thoughts with us in the comments below
I would love to hear your stories.
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