10 Secrets To A Victorious Lifestyle
We all want to be victorious, right?!
A victorious lifestyle means living the life of a winner, a life of value and purpose and, finding fulfillment in it.
It doesn’t mean that life is perfect though.
It has more to do with our attitude and accepting life for what it is.
We always need to keep in mind the fact that we live in a world over which we do not have full control.
Challenges and opposition are inevitable.
And we can’t just sit there, feeling sorry for ourselves and waiting for things to be perfect to start celebrating life and our victories.
We may never experience true happiness if we do that.
Here are 10 keys to a victorious lifestyle:
1 – Believe in a life of victory and aim for it –
Some people see the common problems that they see in their circles and believe that life cannot be better than what they know it to be.
After all, it’s what they know.
As a result, they choose to ‘go with the flow’ and give up on the possibility of a victorious life or fail to appreciate their achievements.
Once you stop believing in good things, you settle for whatever comes your way and stop pursuing happiness.
I have met people who have experienced so much emotional suffering such that they have accepted that they will never be happy in life.
Such people then do so little to better themselves or give themselves the life they want.
Then they focus too much on trying to keep others happy.
I had one person even tell me once that she can’t afford to celebrate happy moments because every time she is in that position, she can’t help but think that it is not worth it because it will be short-lived.
But this is why belief is so important!
If you really believe you do deserve a life of victory, you will open room for it in your heart and life in general.
2 – Freedom from a life of fear and doubt –
Fear and doubt limit us in so many ways.
We are scared to try new things and, in some cases, we even avoid competitive spaces due to the fear of failing.
We think we are not good enough and some things are not meant for us.
This keeps us from challenging ourselves and grabbing other opportunities presented to us.
For example, in my life… some people are scared to start their own Avon business because they afraid they won’t be successful.
Believe in yourself and let go of self-limiting behaviors.
Be positive and open-minded.
3 – Support system –
In this life we do need a strong support system especially when we are discouraged.
Find a supportive group of friends and work on your spirituality.
4 – Be yourself –
So many people are not living fulfilling lives because their daily lives are in conflict with who they really are.
This can be a result of trying to fit in or to please our families, or our friends… or pretty much anybody else except us.
We sacrifice who we are in fear of being alone, being criticized, or being rejected.
Life is more fulfilling and adventurous when we know our purpose and live it.
Freedom is when we live fearlessly and do not hold back a part of ourselves.
5 – Be principled –
Have a solid foundation for who you are and want to be.
Know what’s important to you.
You need that north star to follow.
This reminds you each time why you chose the journey you are on and why you cannot afford to give life less than what you are capable of.
It guides your daily activities and helps you identify the value of life and time.
6 – Start spending time with the right people –
Spend time with people who appreciate your efforts and influence you positively… people who inspire you to be a better version of yourself.
7 – Start making happiness a daily priority –
I’m not talking about selfishness here. That’s discouraged.
But it is incredibly important to remember that we matter too.
No one else can take care of us better than we can take care of ourselves.
We need to prioritize our happiness.
It’s sort of like putting on your oxygen mask on the airplane before helping someone else.
We can better take care of other people and find life more fulfilling when we are healthy and happy.
8 – Make life simple again –
Do not complicate life.
Live within your means and take each day as it comes.
Avoid the drama, and people who are always about the drama.
Keeping less complicated people in your circles will also keep you from feeling the need to be something you cannot afford to be.
Just be yourself, be humble and grow at your own pace.
9 – Be content and grateful –
If you don’t learn to be content with who you are and what you have, you will find it difficult to be happy no matter how successful you are.
Be grateful and count each of your blessings.
We tend to turn a blind eye to ‘small’ wins or blessings.
But we often get so many of them, and when you add them together, they make life amazing.
10 – Don’t compare your life to that of others –
Sometimes we are unhappy in life not because we have not achieved much.
We look at other people’s achievements and make them our standards of success.
This way we cannot even give ourselves time to celebrate the life we have.
We forget that life is short and each person has their own race to run.
We shouldn’t be too hard on ourselves.
All we need to do is to give life our best and celebrate our wins.
Everything happens at its own time for each of us.
If you continue to work on these things, you will achieve that victory you are looking for.
Just remember that you are in control!
You might not be able to control the things that happen to you and in your life, but you sure do have control on how you respond to it.
Now I’d love to hear from you.
Do any of the thoughts I mentioned today resonate with you?
What kinds of things help you to remember that you are in control, and to stay the path to victory?
Please share your thoughts with us in the comments below.
I would love to hear your stories.
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